For reasons known not even to me, I feel that it is time to move on. Any new posts that you would find here you can now find at Love Tap.

I will still be going through my friend's list here, so comments will still happen.

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This amuses me to no end.

Saturday was my first time at Leather Pride Night, and I kinda had no idea what to expect. It turned out to be a lot of fun, but for reasons technically unrelated to LPN (which I will get to later). I guess I was kinda surprised by the number of gay men at this event. It's not that I wasn't expecting some to be there, it's just that I didn't expect them to dominate the event. When we got there we went downstairs because that was less crowded and a few more friends of ours were down there already. After hanging out down there a bit, we soon notice that M and our friends' (hot female) neighbor Lulu are making out. So that ends up taking up most of my attention.
After being a shameless voyeur for about 10 minutes, I decide to sit next to my friend J from out of town, who had come in for the weekend. After some more time, I see M lift up Lulu, piquing (sp?) my interest. She then carries her over and sits her down on my lap. After a bit of surprise and seeing an approving look on M's face, a three-way make-out begins. The only thing that could have made this better was if Lulu were not a smoker (cigarettes are a HUGE pet peeve of mine). 30 minutes later, sadly, Lulu had to go out for a cigarette, and that was sadly the end of making out with Lulu that night. But it was still amusing to see M excited about this for the next couple days.

Sunday was Folsom Street East, which was less cool than expected/hoped for. My biggest bone to pick with the event is that there were speakers all over the place, so that there wasn't less noise to go along with greater distance to the stage. I was also kinda surprised by the number of people there wearing only things like this. It was still fun to be in a public space where everyone was kinky and proud about it.


As M said about herself more than once, this was the first time that I felt comfortable in the public scene. Here's to more!

Next time you travel, make sure that take the toys you took to the last play party out of the bag, including the pockets you forget the bag has. Else you'll have a very confused airport security worker asking you what a Wartenburg Wheel is used for.

Luckily my family wasn't with me at the time.

I just realized something. Maybe I'm not looking hard enough or in the right places, but I don't really have any maledom bloggers on my blogroll. I have femdom, femsub, and malesub, but I don't seem to have any maledom. Is that because they tend to blog less or have I simply not found them?

All must see this video.

Shown to me by M.

I'm watching the first season of House MD on dvd right now, and I was pleasantly surprised to discover that the episode I'm watching deals with bdsm as a side-plot. Heehee.

It also ends with a fairly good though very brief description of what kink is all about.

"Softpower is something you do with a consenting adult until they give the safeword!"
- Stephen Colbert

Yesterday I decided to go to the Home Depot on 23rd St. Now, this isn't note-worthy because I've been there before, but this time I went specifically for kink-related goods. So I bought a good deal of rope, which is of surprisingly good quality (at least in terms of softness - haven't tested the knot-keeping abilities yet) and the ingredients for another item that you may gladly ask me about in person but that I want to surprise M with. The rope is pretty soft and seems well-suited, although I am not an expert by any means, and is CHEAP! However, it pretty much only comes in one color: white.

Perhaps I'll remember to write an actual review when I get around to using it.

Prompted by yesterday's CV meeting, I decided to see what came up on Amazon when I searched for erotic hypnotism. I think that this book has been misclassified.

Is it just me or is "dominate" not, in fact, an adjective. I see it used in place of what I would say should be "dominant" far too often. Is my grasp of the English language failing me? Or do I simply come across a large number of stupid people's writing online?


Also, I have found Domme. Who wants to go?

So after emailing UPS customer service yesterday, I received a response this morning from one Ms Chastity Payne. Now tell me that's not the perfect femdom name.

So my roommate and I were watching Mythbusters, where the myth being busted was that if a shark grabs a hold of you and you punch it it will let you go. So in order to test this theory, they made a robot that could punch, but they needed fists. So they went and got these two fancy items.

This might be my favorite moment in television.

For some time now I've been much more turned on when I am dominant and I have rarely felt like being submissive of late. Yet the fantasies that swirl around my head still mostly involve me being submissive/bottoming. This confuses me. To say the least.

So after a very fun and enjoyable evening topping my gf two nights ago I was kinda bummed (but not extremely so) yesterday. Today I realized that I often feel this way after topping her. Does anyone else have a good-night's-sleep delay when it comes to topdrop? Am I even identifying this correctly?

Also, I didn't end up feeling dominant per se, just very much enjoyed topping her without too much power exchange.

What are your feelings on topdrop and how do they manifest themselves?

This is one of the most bizzare stories I have ever heard/read. I really don't know what to think of it.

via ErosBlog

This seems like an interesting idea, although it does combine elements of kink and alcohol which I personally am not too cool with.

boss: "oliver, find me a picture of a dungeons & dragons dragon"
me: "[name], i'm sorry to disappoint you, but i've never played d&d"
boss: "well, find me an s&m dragon"
...
later
...
boss: "what, didn't you ever play snakes & mouses?"